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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

12.06.2025 07:54

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

I could never make a relationship work though!

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

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I of course replied” arh beautiful!

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They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

And i lived it daily.

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My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

Who then, do I blame.?

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19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

Ive learnt so much.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

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His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

Would this be the day?

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

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He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

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The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

She loved him until the end.

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

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My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

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Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

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I think the readers, may guess!

The only rule us 5 kids had .

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

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She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Yes, a stroke or heart attack is the reason on your death certificate.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

He knew the spot.

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

I was 9 years of age.

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

I waited trembling.

I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

I was scared of men, in general

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

Put me off passion for life!!

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

She married twice! .

This is soul school!.

We all went to grammer schools

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

My mum and dad in the seventies!

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

Why do we forgive? Because if we don,t

As i do to all so called friends.?

I was very sick at this time too.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

When she asked me how she looked .

Especially a lifetime of it.

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

So, i spoilt her more .

But it wasn’t much.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

He was dying to do it , i knew.

Comes on , in middle age.

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

I couldn’t, believe it.

I write beautiful poetry .

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

I have no regrets .

It was going to be , some day.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

I said to her

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Was to survive, this bastard.

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

I don,t even have a pension.

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

They are buried together, in the same grave..

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

All the time i was locked up.

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

Why did i forgive my father ?

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

She found it foreign!.

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

I was seconnd youngest,

We were not on the streets..

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

Im still living with it.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

So whats the point in blame.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

Its a big thing in the States for the last 25 years.

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

One cannot live in the past .

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

She wouldn,t have been !

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

I will be 64.

(And it was in our own minds.)

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

But ive been too sick for many years..

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

My life is so biszare .

She was in good health!

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

I never cut or harmed myself..

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

But, we were locked up after school.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

He resisted the act ,that day.

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

What did i know ?

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

My family never makes their pension either.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.